'I know I’m not [the] father': Guy confesses right after girlfriend gives birth that he knows she cheated

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    Font - My girlfriend just gave birth to our first child. I know I'm not the biological father and I revealed I knew as soon as she gave birth. I'll try to keep this short because I'm planning to go to a bar soon. I found out when she was about 6 months along. The guy (Bryan) approached me at my work. "Are you Sarah's boyfriend?". I said yeah and ask what he wanted. He said he was sorry that he had slept with her and swore he didn't know that she was with someone (I don't believe that).
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    Font - He then pulled out his phone to show the texts between them. They had been sleeping together or "linking up" for at least a year. Then she found out she was pregnant and they came to an agreement to just pretend the baby was mine. In return, she wouldn't lose her perfect life and he wouldn't be responsible for a baby.
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    Font - I knew it was weird. We had been having problems trying for a baby and all of a sudden she got pregnant so easily. But he explained that he had been thinking about it and he recently became a Christian. He said that he couldn't live his life knowing that I was living a lie while his child didn't know their real father.
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    Font - So yeah. I told him I'd keep in touch, and to not say that he said anything just yet. I've had a lot of time to think but ultimately I decided to wait until she gave birth. To hurt her in her most vulnerable moment.
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    Font - I'll spare the details, but she went into labor, baby was born, and was taken to the NICU to be monitored for a bit. What should've been a beautiful moment of me holding my baby, was the most heartbreaking time of my life. Just knowing he was not mine hurt me. Once she was sewn up and comfortable I started packing up my stuff to leave. She asked where I was going and I just told her.
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    Font - "I know I'm not baby's name's father. You can act all shocked but I know. Just ask Bryan to come, I'm positive he'll sign the birth certificate". Then I left. She's been calling my phone over and over (even sending texts as I type this) and has even gotten her sister to call me a few times.
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    Font - It was hard pretending these last few months but I think I'm satisfied. I feel really really heartbroken though. I was planning to propose to her on the day our baby was born. I was gonna make her the happiest woman ever. Oh well. Im going to go get faced now.
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    Rectangle - Stumpy1258 11 hr. ago I did a sigh of relief when I saw you're not married to this woman. Take power from that. You can move on much easily. 10.3k Reply Share
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    Font - ProperStatisticians. 4 hr. ago I'm so sorry. No one deserves this, she pulled the is absolutely evil. It will get better with time and you will be happy again with someone who deserves you.Go ahead and let her and Brian deal with this situation on their own
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    Font - Lifeabroad86 7 hr. ago Shoot, I'm relieved he didn't sign the birth certificate, some states consider him the actual father at that point 689 Reply Share
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    Font - Kirito-390 12 hr. ago. edited 7 hr. ago Get a DNA test just to be 100% sure the child isn't yours but you did the right thing leaving her.make sure you have the text from Bryan so she can't twist the narrative ETA:you also need the DNA test so she can't put you on child support cuz if your in the USA it'll be hell to get u off if it once the courts deem u the father 4.8k Reply Share
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    Font - throwaway3733339 OP. 12 hr. ago I'm like 110 percent sure that's not my kid just from looking at him but I'll get the test. 4 3.7k Reply
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    Font - munchkin08 10 hr. ago My thing is other guy saying oh I didn't want to be involved with baby, so I'll put it on you. But then turns around and says I couldn't let you live like that bro. So he just handed you on a tray then said I'll let you handle it cuz I'm still not tryna be involved (you got it big dawg). 886 Reply Share
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    Font - chlolousto 11 hr. ago So sorry that you're going through this, friend! I hope you have a good evening at the bar! How did she react when you were leaving after telling her you knew? 205 Reply Share :
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    Font - throwaway3733339 OP. 11 hr. ago Her eyes got really wide and she started to say "Wait wait!" but I was already closing the door when she started talking more. In the texts and voicemails she's left me, she explains that Bryan is lying and if I will just pick up the phone she'll explain. I mean I have a copy of their text messages, (and a s tape as further proof) so I'm very tempted to send them to her but I really don't want to give her any attention right now. 499 Reply Share
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    Font - emotionalandscapes. 5 hr. ago as soon as i read the "hurt her at her most vulnerable moment" part i thought yeah, this is definitely creative writing. 176 Reply Share
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    Font - BlueSkySunnyDay41 - 4 hr. ago I didn't realize it could be fake but yeah, that comment infuriates me. Disgusting. 60 Reply Share
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    Product - changegamers. 4 hr. ago Right? Even if this is true, which I doubt, I can't believe people are okay with that. Disturbing.

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